Confidences of a Sugar Daddy
I’m a sugar daddy who’s been dating the same sugar babe for 5 years – here’s what everyone thinks of our relationship. Strangers tend to equate being a sugar babe with prostitution, but that’s not how I see it.
For me, dating is more like a temporary arranged marriage, where you make your own arrangements.
A prostitute doesn’t just offer sex for money and see several men a day, but that’s how she makes her living. A Sugar Babie wants an ongoing relationship. She wants a man she can get along with. She wants what a girlfriend or a woman could get if she could find a man with money. She has a job that pays her bills, but she’s looking to improve her lifestyle. And she’s not talking about sex for money.
But most of them know if the arrangement will continue beyond the first date that they have to do as a girlfriend and become intimate.
I’ve been a sugar daddy for over ten years.
I’ve had an account on monsugardaddy.com for a long time.
I’ve met countless women on these sites. I talk to them and listen to their stories. I have seen some of these women for years and some of them have only been there once and some of them have been in between.
The image portrayed in the ads of a hot young college student meeting a rich man who pays them to look pretty while eating and traveling is largely false. Women read the stories and try to get that easy job, but this is not really the case.
The women I meet are ordinary people. They have a job and an otherwise regular life. You can’t tell they’re a sugar baby. In fact, most women don’t say anything and, at most, talk about it with a friend who does the same thing and who may have taught them the job.
Most women only last a few weeks as a sugar baby, often because they are tired of getting weird propositions from vulgar men who don’t really have the money to help them. I treat sugar babies like normal people and I know what they are willing to do and I deal with it.
The typical Sugar Baby has a goal, like saving for a car, going on a trip or finding a new apartment. She’s probably in between boyfriends, or has just broken up with a boyfriend, or is divorced and doesn’t want any love drama. Some of them like to be attracted to an older, wealthy man. Older women who have been married expect things, while sugar babies are grateful to get them.
It’s like having a girlfriend – but I’m never getting married.
For three years now, I’ve been seeing a very young girl. She’s half my age, but our relationship is like boyfriend and girlfriend.
As a sugar daddy, you’re on your honeymoon most of the time – you’re treated well, you have lots of romantic evenings, and you’re considered a saviour to women in distress and the facilitator of her better way of life.
I’ve taken vacations with some women and given extra money to some women, but it was only after I got to know them well. Some women have asked me for money just for dinner, but I don’t agree with that. Why should I? Some women have asked me for money in advance or a big allowance, but I don’t agree to that either. There are nice girls on Sugar Baby dating sites who are just looking for help to pay their bills, but there are also a lot of scammers out there.
Student loans are a problem for many young sugar babies, and there is no doubt that many of them come to the site to get cash to make their monthly payment. I have met two active students over the years, one who went to La Sorbonne and the other to the University of Rennes.
Like all the girls with whom I have had exchanges, I gave them a donation of 200 to 300 euros per visit, plus dinner, gifts and outings. But I know that very beautiful students ask for 500 to 600 euros, and some of them get them.
A man has to be careful who he is dealing with – many will tell you it is a student when it is clearly not. The first thing I do when I contact someone is to take their e-mail address and phone number and Google them. They often appear on Facebook, but sometimes on escort sites.
Once I get to know a woman, I can spend between 1,000 and 2,000 euros a month, plus dinners, holidays and shopping. Some women ask for between 5,000 and 10,000 euros a month, but I would be surprised if they get it – unless they are lucky and meet a millionaire.
My current wife has a good job where he earns about 25,000 euros a year, but he could not afford an apartment without a roommate. Thanks to me, she now lives alone in a one-bedroom apartment and she is happy. I also took her on three trips and she was delighted.
I’m having fun and I can still afford to retire.
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